The Let Them Theory

In The Let Them Theory, Mel Robbins—New York Times bestselling author and renowned expert on motivation and mindset—reveals how two simple words can transform your life: “Let Them.” This powerful concept is the key to freedom from the opinions, drama, and judgments of others. By letting go of the need to control everything and everyone around you, you reclaim your time, energy, and focus on what truly matters—YOU.

In this easy-to-understand guide, Robbins explains how The Let Them Theory can help you stop wasting energy on things you can’t control and start focusing on your own happiness, goals, and growth. With relatable stories, research, and expert insights, Robbins teaches you how to break free from fear, self-doubt, and the grip of others’ expectations.